Elon Musk's Ex-Wife Justine Musk Recalls "Blissful" Early Days of Their Relationship
Elon Musk married college sweetheart Justine Wilson in 2000, a year after selling his company Zip2—founded with Greg Kouri and his brother Kimbal Musk—to Compaq for $307 million.
"It was easy to be with him for long stretches of time, and that made up for all the arguing," Justine reminisced in Alex Gibney's 2026 documentary Musk, recalling how they'd go to bookstores and "sit and eat croissants and read together."
"It sounds simple," she noted, "but it was kind of blissful."
How Elon Musk and Justine Musk Reacted to the Death of Son Nevada
In 2002, Elon and Justine's first child, Nevada Alexander, died of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) when he was 10 weeks old.
"Our way of reacting to Nevada's death was to get pregnant as quickly as possible," Justine said in the doc. To "somehow learn how to live" with the loss, she wanted to "create a story in a way that was healing."
Twins Vivian Jenna and Griffin were born in 2004 after "a few tries" with IVF, she said, but triplets Kai, Saxon and Damian "happened like that," arriving in 2006.
Justine Musk Felt "Contempt" From Elon Musk
After Elon sold Zip2, he "achieved a certain level and suddenly I was not invited to come along with him anymore," Justine said in Musk, recalling "a sense of growing distance, and maybe some increasing contempt on his part."
Justine Musk Says Elon Taught Her What "Gaslighting" Was
"I learned the term gaslighting through my relationship with Elon," Justine said in the film. "He would reinvent the arena of the conversation and kind of like knock you out of it. And then you're like there and wondering, 'What happened?'"
"Then he would make a joke or tell you 15 things that were wrong with you, and you would cry," she recalled of Elon, who filed for divorce in 2008. "And then three hours later, or three days later—or maybe a week later—it would be like, 'Let's go to the movies.'"
Elon has said little over the years about his first marriage, but in a Jan. 1 reply to an X user who posted Justine's 2014 TEDx Talk, "The Art of the Deep Yes," he called her "an amazing woman."
E! News reached out to Tesla PR regarding Justine's comments in the film but did not hear back.
After Musk premiered Sept. 8 at the Venice Film Festival, Elon replied to an X post listing people who participated in the film, including Justine and his ex-girlfriend Ashley St. Clair, writing, "Gibney just assembled a hit list of people who either have an axe to grind or don’t even know me (but still have an axe to grind)."
Elon Musk Studied Up on Kublai Khan, Father of 47 Sons
Ashley St. Clair first connected with Elon on X in 2023 when he appreciated one of her posts about being a mom, replying, "Lovely story. I hope you have a few more children."
They met in San Francisco and, soon after, he invited her to Providence, R.I.
In the hotel, she shared in Musk, "I'm falling asleep with him while he's listening to an audiobook or a podcast about Kublai Khan. I was just sitting there, like, am I dreaming? Is this really what he's going asleep to?"
The 1200s-era Mongolian emperor, a grandson of Genghis Khan, had 22 sons with his four wives, another 25 sons with his various concubines, and at least a few daughters, according to The Travels of Marco Polo.
How Ashley St. Clair Ended Up Having a Baby With Elon Musk
Elon shares sons X Æ A-12 and Techno "Tau" Mechanicus and daughter Exa "Y" Dark Sideræl with Claire Boucher, the singer known as Grimes, as well as four kids with Neuralink exec Shivon Zillis.
When Ashley started seeing Elon, she said in Musk, "the story I got was that things were amicable with Claire and that Shivon, it was platonic and they just have kids together." (Elon and Grimes had a messy custody battle that was closed in Texas in August 2024, while Shivon announced the end of her romantic relationship with Elon a week before Musk's Oct. 9 release.)
Before Ashley and Elon's son Romulus was born in September 2024, she was worried about "this all blowing up and only being seen as Elon Musk's baby mama," Ashley said in the doc. "And he was very kind about it. But the moment I had our kid, that was all gone.
Elon Musk's "Gatling Gun of Sperm"
Ashley said in Musk that, after revealing publicly she had a child with Elon, she started hearing from other women who claimed Elon was hitting them up online to father a baby.
She cracked, "It's like a Gatling gun of sperm in his DMs."
Elon "told me that he wanted to use surrogates," Ashley said, "because it was the only way we could create a legion of children before the civil war."
Justine said in Musk, referring to the women who've had children with her ex-husband, including herself, "I always felt we were pretty interchangeable in this story."
Asked who she meant, she replied, "The breeders," explaining, "Somebody on Elon's side referred to us as 'the breeders.' And there's a playbook, you know, it's kind of like an assembly line by now."
Elon Musk Called Son X His "Favorite" Amid Custody Battle With Grimes
Elon frequently brings X to public events. When Ashley questioned on one occasion why Tau and Y weren't with him, she said in Musk, "He said, 'Well, that's because X is my favorite.'"
Grimes told Vanity Fair in 2022 that, while she felt that “kids need to stay out of it,” as in whatever was being said about her and Elon, but that “X is just out there,” with his father “really seeing him as a protégé and bringing him to everything.”
In 2023, Elon called then-3-year-old X his “emotional support human.”
Ashley St. Clair Says She Refused to Sign a Nondisclosure Agreement
Ashley said in Musk that she refused to sign an NDA—"labeled as a child support agreement"—that would have provided her with "a lump sum of $15 million and then $100,000 a month for 21 years."
At the Venice Film Festival, Ashley said during a Musk panel that not signing allowed her to participate in the film, to "set the example for my kids that you should never take being materially comfortable over speaking the truth."
Elon wrote on X the next day, "She was never offered that and has a history of making false claims."
Ashley pushed back on the I've Had It podcast days later, calling Elon's comment a "serious accusation."
"I am in law school," she continued, "and I am gonna have to pass the character and fitness test for the bar. I think that is a very serious allegation to make, that I have a history of making false claims—which I do not—and I do not plan on letting that slide lightly."
How Elon Musk's Childhood Affected His Approach to Life
Justine says in Musk that Elon "would try to keep it light" when talking about his childhood in South Africa. "But you got the feeling that his mind was a dangerous neighborhood."
He told her that, while growing up, "he had this habit of jerking awake because he was afraid something terrible was going to happen to him, something violent."
She "understood Elon better in some ways" when she met his father, Errol Musk, Justine notes. "They both used the same language when they were insulting each other, or insulting you, as a woman."
Justine Musk Explains Estrangement Between Elon Musk and Daughter Vivian Jenna
Justine says Jenna, Griffin's twin who came out as transgender in 2020 and filed to legally change her name in 2022, "is extremely strong-willed" and was always the "most openly defiant" of her and Elon's five kids.
When Jenna was transitioning, the author says, "instead of trying to understand her point of view, Elon was telling her through telling the world what that point of view actually was."
Elon—who wrote on X in 2025 that his child was "killed by the woke mind virus"—"never tried to repair things," Justine says. "That's not in his nature. If a relationship ruptures, then it ruptures."
Moreover, she notes, "we actually went through the actual death of an actual child, and...this is a child growing up. She's Jenna."