Inside Matthew Rhys and Keri Russell's Top-Secret Love Story

Keri Russell and double Emmy winner Matthew Rhys fell in love playing spies on The Americans, and their real-life romance was also a secret until a burglar blew the lid off the whole operation.

By Natalie Finn Jun 23, 2026 8:57 PM
| Updated Sep 15, 2026 11:49 AM
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Keri Russell and Matthew Rhys were perfectly content to keep their blossoming romance a secret while playing married spies on The Americans.

But their cover was blown prematurely when a burglar broke into Russell's Brooklyn home one night and shoved some of her stuff into his backpack. Police caught the thief, after which the District Attorney's office wanted to make a big show of returning the couple's personal items.

"They were like, 'Oh, we'd love to bring you your things back and present them to you on set and do a photograph for the D.A.," Rhys—who nabbed Emmys Sept. 14 for both his tonally divergent performances in the spooky Apple TV+ comedy Widow's Bay and the Netflix limited series The Beast in Me—recalled during an April appearance on Late Night With Seth Meyers. Russell, ever the diplomat, "was like, 'No, no, that's all right! I'll just come to a precinct to pick them up.'"

She really insisted they not come, but they did anyway—"God bless them," Rhys added, "and thank you for their service"—and crew members were quick to notice that what the police assumed was Russell's bag actually belonged to the Welsh actor.

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"Lo, it came to pass that we were together," Rhys quipped. "Everyone [found out], one clean sweep. Didn't have to hire a publicist, it was great."

Incidentally, this was in 2014, a while before they welcomed their now-10-year-old son Sam. Russell also shares son River, 19, and daughter Willa, 13, with ex-husband Shane Deary.

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Russell's rep confirmed in early December 2013 that she and Deary, a carpenter and contractor, had separated over the summer after six years of marriage. Weeks later, she and Rhys sparked dating rumors when they were photographed looking sweet on each other while out and about in Brooklyn, where they're still based to this day. 

"Oh, we just sort of started having sex,” Russell cracked to the New Yorker last year when asked how she and Rhys first got together. “No, I’m kidding. I don’t know.”

In reality, it happened "slowly," the 50-year-old continued. "With a lot of, kind of, ‘Oh, we shouldn’t. Oh, this is terrible, we shouldn’t!’...Inevitably, a bottle of red wine would be opened.”

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A previous on-set romance "ended disastrously" for Rhys in his mid-20s, causing him to swear off ever repeating that mistake, he recalled on an August episode of The New York Times' podcast The Interview. So, when it happened again in his mid-30s, "I was like, Oh, no, this is happening again."

Of course, he added, "It wasn’t something I was going to enter into lightly. But sometimes you can’t fight it. It’s ordained."

It also turned out, however, that Rhys and Russell already knew each other, having met after a kickball-and-beer-fueled party in L.A. more than a decade prior.

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"I very drunkenly asked her for her number when she was a young, single, slip of a thing," Rhys shared during a 2017 appearance on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen, "so I sort of knew then when I was 26."

Years later, according to Russell, "We did all the readings together and all the things, and after a heavy dose of fight training, all sweaty, at lunch, you said, 'Oh, you know we've met before. I said, 'No we haven't,' and you said, 'Yeah, we've met before, like 10 years ago at kickball.' As soon as he said that, I knew exactly what [he meant] and I opened my eyes, like, 'Oh! Of course I remember that.'"

The Diplomat star cracked, "You were that buffoon that wouldn't stop calling."

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Luckily, they both picked up the phone when they had the chance to play Soviet KGB agents so committed to the cause they've had two children together and present as the all-American nuclear family.

He and Russell "had to do a chemistry test for this," Rhys told E! News in January 2013 when the intense FX drama premiered. "The show kind of relies on our chemistry—or our lack of it—in the beginning. And that in itself is a very specific kind of chemistry."

And he wasn't kidding when he promised "more twists and turns than a roller coaster."

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The now-51-year-old was, of course, talking about the show's plot twists, as his and Russell's felicitous off-screen love affair didn't take away from the increasingly complicated dynamic playing out on screen, including in the form of revealing sex scenes. (Her pregnancy, meanwhile, was camouflaged rather than written into the series.)

"I get a little protective," Rhys admitted to The Hollywood Reporter in 2016. "I’m like, “Can someone get her a f--kin’ robe, please?! She’s standing there naked, we’ve cut for five seconds, Jesus Christ.' And they’re like, 'Dude, this is the fourth season.'"

And the couple delivered no matter what was demanded of them, both scoring Emmy nominations in 2016, 2017 and 2018.

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When Rhys won Outstanding Lead Actor in a Drama Series for the show's final season, he concluded his acceptance speech with, "To the woman who truly got me this award, who just stands in front of me every day and puts up with me, she said 'If you propose to me I will punch you clean in the mouth'—I don't have the word, I don't have the time, none of which do you justice."

(Russell may have meant she'd punch him if he proposed from the stage, but the couple do remain unwed, Rhys telling The Times in 2025 that they "literally haven't got round to marriage yet.")

They've walked countless red carpets together since, with Russell notching her first Actor Award win for The Diplomat in March, but Rhys is not content being the only Emmy winner in his household.

"I just feel bad," he said on a May episode of Obsessed: The Podcast, recalling how only he went home with a trophy in 2018. "Not to take away anything from Claire Foy from The Crown because she was incredible in that. I just wish Keri got it because she was so incredible."

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No doubt Rhys will have more chances to root for Russell who scored her third lead actress in a drama nod for The Diplomat at the 2026 Emmys and was also nominated for Outstanding Drama Series as a producer.

In addition to his two individual trophies, Rhys also emerged a winner as an executive producer when Widow's Bay nabbed the trophy for Outstanding Comedy Series, the story of the cursed New England town becoming the most-nominated new series of the year with 19 nods. 

Being nominated at the same time "keeps our relationship together," Rhys quipped to E! on the 2019 Golden Globes red carpet. Added Russell, "Thank God we don't have to break up."

Though award season is not without its perils. 

Earlier in the evening, Rhys—now the first male actor to have won in all three acting categories—joked of Russell, "She goes, 'If you win both, I'm not coming home with you.' OK, fair enough."

So, asked backstage in an exclusive interview with E! News if that meant he was free for the evening, he noted, "I don't know if I'm free. Lonely, maybe."

Fortunately he and the rest of the night's winners have much to celebrate. 

Outstanding Drama Series

The Diplomat

The Gilded Age

A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms

Paradise

WINNER: The Pitt

Pluribus

Slow Horses

Your Friends and Neighbors

Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama Series

Carrie Coon, The Gilded Age

Keri Russell, The Diplomat

WINNER: Rhea Seehorn, Pluribus

Zendaya, Euphoria

Chase Infiniti, The Testaments

Outstanding Lead Actor in a Drama Series

Sterling K. Brown, Paradise

Gary Oldman, Slow Horses

Mark Ruffalo, Task

WINNER: Noah Wyle, The Pitt

Rufus Sewell, The Diplomat

Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Drama Series

Fiona Dourif, The Pitt

Taylor Dearden, The Pitt

WINNER: Allison Janney, The Diplomat

Katherine LaNasa, The Pitt

Sepideh Moafi, The Pitt

Julianne Nicholson, Paradise

Karolina Wydra, Pluribus

Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Drama Series

Patrick Ball, The Pitt

Billy Crudup, The Morning Show

Shawn Hatosy, The Pitt

Jack Lowden, Slow Horses

WINNER: Tom Pelphrey, Task

Carlos Manuel-Vesga, Pluribus

Gerran Howell, The Pitt

Outstanding Comedy Series

Abbott Elementary

The Bear

Nobody Wants This

Hacks

Margo’s Got Money Troubles

Only Murders in the Building

Shrinking

WINNER: Widow’s Bay

Outstanding Lead Actress in a Comedy Series

Quinta Brunson, Abbott Elementary

Ayo Edebiri, The Bear

Elle Fanning, Margo’s Got Money Troubles

Lisa Kudrow, The Comeback

WINNER: Jean Smart, Hacks

Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy Series

Steve Carell, Rooster

WINNER: Matthew Rhys, Widow’s Bay

Jason Segel, Shrinking

Martin Short, Only Murders in the Building

Yahya Abdul-Mateen II, Wonder Man

Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Comedy Series

Dale Dickey, Widow’s Bay

Hannah Einbinder, Hacks

Janelle James, Abbott Elementary

WINNER: Kate O’Flynn, Widow’s Bay

Megan Stalter, Hacks

Michelle Pfeiffer, Margo’s Got Money Troubles

Jessica Williams, Shrinking

Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Comedy Series

Colman Domingo, The Four Seasons

Paul W. Downs, Hacks

Nick Offerman, Margo’s Got Money Troubles

WINNER: Stephen Root, Widow’s Bay

Michael Urie, Shrinking

Tyler James Williams, Abbott Elementary

Harrison Ford, Shrinking

Outstanding Guest Actress in a Comedy Series

Leslie Bibb, Hacks

Jamie Lee Curtis, The Bear

WINNER: Betty Gilpin, Widow's Bay

Cherry Jones, Hacks

Laurie Metcalf, Hacks

Kaitlin Olson, Hacks

Lauren Weedman, Hacks

Outstanding Guest Actor in a Comedy Series

Christopher McDonald, Hacks

Michael J. Fox, Shrinking

Brett Goldstein, Shrinking

Hamish Linklater, Widow's Bay

WINNER: Rob Reiner, The Bear

Connor Storrie, Saturday Night Live

Outstanding Guest Actress in a Drama Series

Tal Anderson, The Pitt

Brittany Allen, The Pitt

Tina Ivlev, The Pitt

Miriam Shor, Pluribus

Merritt Wever, The Gilded Age

WINNER: Shailene Woodley, Paradise

Outstanding Guest Actor in a Drama Series

Colman Domingo, Euphoria

WINNER: Ernest Harden Jr., The Pitt

Jeff Hiller, Pluribus

Jeff Kober, The Pitt

Jonathan Pryce, Slow Horses

Bradley Whitford, The Diplomat

Outstanding Limited or Anthology Series

The Beast in Me

Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette

WINNER: DTF St. Louis

Beef

All Her Fault

Outstanding Lead Actress in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie

Claire Danes, The Beast in Me

Sarah Pidgeon, Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette

WINNER: Sally Field, Remarkably Bright Creatures

Carey Mulligan, Beef

Sarah Snook, All Her Fault

Outstanding Lead Actor in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie

WINNER: Matthew Rhys, The Beast in Me

Riz Ahmed, Bait

Jason Bateman, Black Rabbit

Charlie Hunnam, Monster: The Ed Gein Story

Oscar Isaac, Beef

Outstanding Supporting Actress in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie

WINNER: Linda Cardellini, DTF St. Louis

Constance Zimmer, Love Story: John F. Kennedy Jr. & Carolyn Bessette

Dakota Fanning, All Her Fault

Joy Sunday, DTF St. Louis

Youn Yuh-jung, Beef

Laurie Metcalf, Monster: The Ed Gein Story

Outstanding Supporting Actor in a Limited or Anthology Series or Movie

Jason Bateman, DTF St. Louis

Richard Gadd, Half Man

Richard Jenkins, DTF St. Louis

WINNER: David Harbour, DTF St. Louis

Charles Melton, Beef

Nick Offerman, Death by Lightning

Outstanding Unstructured Reality Program

America's Sweethearts: Dallas Cowboys Cheerleaders

WINNER: Love on the Spectrum

RuPaul's Drag Race: Untucked

Summer House

Welcome to Wrexham

Outstanding Structured Reality Program

WINNER: Antiques Roadshow

Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives

Love is Blind

Queer Eye

Shark Tank

Outstanding Host for a Reality or Reality Competition Program

RuPaul Charles, RuPaul's Drag Race

WINNER: Alan Cumming, The Traitors

Kristen Kish, Top Chef

Ariana Madix, Love Island USA

Jeff Probst, Survivor

Outstanding Variety Series

The Daily Show

Jimmy Kimmel Live!

Last Week Tonight With John Oliver

WINNER: The Late Show With Stephen Colbert

Saturday Night Live

Outstanding Reality Competition Program

Dancing With the Stars

RuPaul’s Drag Race

Survivor

Top Chef

WINNER: The Traitors

Outstanding Variety Special (Pre-Recorded)

Dave Chappelle: The Unstoppable

WINNER: The Muppet Show

Nikki Glaser: Good Girl

Taylor Swift, The Eras Tour, The Final Show

Wicked: One Wonderful Night

Outstanding Host for a Game Show

Steve Harvey, Celebrity Family Feud

Ken Jennings, Jeopardy!

Colin Jost, Pop Culture Jeopardy!

WINNER: Jimmy Kimmel, Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?

Martin Short, Match Game

(Originally published June 23, 2026, at 1:57 p.m. PT)