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Sarah Michelle Gellar Shares Her One Marriage Rule With Freddie Prinze Jr.

Sarah Michelle Gellar exclusively shared with E! News what her big rule is for a long-lasting marriage, which is something her fellow Star Search judge Chrissy Teigen also agrees with.

By Jennie Ekpa, Sabba Rahbar Jan 21, 2026 11:39 PMTags
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Sarah Michelle Gellar is flushed with ideas for a long and healthy relationship. 

But there’s one very important rule the Star Search judge and her husband Freddie Prinze Jr. follow that has helped the couple keep their marriage going strong after 23 years.

“Separate bathrooms,” Sarah exclusively told E! News’ The Rundown host Erin Lim Rhodes at the Jan. 20 premiere for the Netflix competition series. “That's what I always say."

And the 48-year-old’s fellow Star Search judge Chrissy Teigen, who joined her on the red carpet, agreed 100 percent, noting that she follows a similar rule with husband John Legend.

“It is little things like that,” Chrissy explained. “You got to keep the sexy and preserve the sexy in a little bit of ways.”

The 40-year-old admitted that while John doesn’t do “that all the time,” she makes sure that she does, adding, “For all he knows, I have never farted or pooped.”

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As for Sarah, the Buffy the Vampire Slayer star and Freddie—who share kids Charlotte, 16, and Rocky, 13—have done their best to keep their decades-long relationship out of the spotlight, with Freddie even sharing that the two often ignore any outside guidance they’re given.

"I've never gotten any good advice," he told E! News in July. "Most of the marriage advice came from dudes that were divorced that thought we would get divorced, too. They were trying to deal with their own issues."

As the 49-year-old explained, he believes that advice is "like peanut butter,” adding, "I may think it's delicious, but if you're allergic, you're dead.”

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“So, it doesn't always apply as well as we would hope,” he continued. “I’ve gotten a lot of bad advice about marriage."

And when it comes to their personal lives, the two have also tried to avoid the typical Hollywood lifestyle, with Freddie noting that he believes it’s possible for celebrities to control that "to a certain degree."

"I don't know how deliberate they are in trying to avoid that BS," he said on the Oldish podcast in 2024. "I know how easy it's been for us ‘cause I don't go anywhere."

"People don't see Sarah and I out and about at the popular places," Freddie continued. "We have our restaurants that we like, and they're not super trendy in places where paparazzi hang out. So we're good at avoiding it."

For a look back at Sarah and Freddie's long-lasting romance, keep reading.

Party of Four

In January 2019, Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze Jr. had a double date with Shannen Doherty and the actress' then-husband Kurt Iswarienko.

Kiss Kiss

"No mistletoe, no problem," the mom of two wrote on this December 2018 kissy photo.

Halloween Hotties

In 2018, the lovebirds took their Halloween costumes to the next level by dressing up as characters from The Royal Tenenbaums. 

Blissful

It doesn't matter what these two do, as long as they're together they are having a good time.

Ice Cream Cuddles

"If you were ice cream, you would be my favorite flavor," Gellar captioned this sweet snap in 2018.

Wine Not?

"It's the freakin weekend, baby I'm about to have me some fun," Gellar wrote on this cheeky post in March of 2018.

Photo Booth Fun

In December 2017, the cute couple had some fun at an engagement party thanks to photo booth props.

Pretty in Pink

Gellar channeled her inner Molly Ringwald with her Andie costume from Pretty in Pink in 2017 while her husband nailed it as Duckie (played by Jon Cryer) from the film.

Sparks Will Fly

"The only time I don't mind giving up #independence lol," Gellar joked to her followers on the 4th of July in 2017.

Ready, Set, Smile

The couple that snaps selfies together, stays together! 

Birthday Lovin'

Gellar's birthday message in 2017 to her husband was just the cutest. "Happy birthday @realfreddieprinze," she wrote, "'the happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything.'"

Hearts Full

In January 2017, the pair celebrated National Spouse Day by taking this pic.

Red Hot

"Someone let me know who that red head was seen trick or treating with @realfreddieprinze ..." Gellar joked on Instagram while celebrating Halloween in 2016.

Beachin'

The Scooby-Doo stars soaked up the last bits of summer together in 2016.

Proud as Can Be

The Buffy the Vampire Slayer alum couldn't help but gush about her husband after his cookbook came out.

Movie Night

"Finally out like the adults we are...to see #fantasticalbeastsandwheretofindthem," Gellar revealed while out on a date night in November 2016.

Fight Club

In October 2015, the duo posed with wrestling belts and tried to out muscle each other.

Friends Forever

The bond between Gellar, Prinze and Selma Blair has lasted for three decades and we can't wait to see what they do during the next three.

Cookin' Up Love

The Back to the Kitchen author and his wife are often found in the kitchen whipping up delicious meals for their family. 

Baby on Board

In this adorable throwback, Gellar revealed that the couple took this photo in Hawaii after they learned they were expecting their daughter Charlotte!

Dirty 30

These two have had a lot of fun in their relationship, and the Foodstirs creator's "Dirty 30" birthday party was no exception. 

Gobble, Gobble, Gobble

This throwback snap, the happy couple celebrated their first Thanksgiving together.

Beach Babies

The I Know What You Did Last Summer costars looked like babies in this photo from a vacation way back before they had kids together.

Sunsets Forever

We just love these two.

Christmas Cuties

If you've ever wanted to know what Prinze and Gellar looked like when celebrating their first holiday together, then look no further!

Drunk in Love

How happy do these two lovebirds look in this sweet photo from their honeymoon back in 2002?!

Just Married

Clearly, this pair was a match made in smiley heaven.

Look of Love

"I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you," Gellar shared on one of her past wedding anniversaries. "I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me."

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